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Feb 26

Top Tips On No Longer Being Pressured! Where Does Your Inspiration Come From?

Do You Allow Others To Genetically Modify YOU? Truth About Inspiration and Motivation. by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

What kind of inspiration gets you taking action?

I use to dislike listening to some people trying to inspire me. Why?  Because while they might have motivated me, they did not add inspiration to my life. I don’t know about you but true change happens naturally in me when the true intention of an inspirational person is to add value to my authentic self. Time tells the truth!

How do motivation and inspiration differ?

When I would go to my companies conferences, the energy in the room was very motivating. However, because of my mindset, I felt like I was competing for a place on stage. Yes, I love being on stage and saying something profound! Who wouldn’t?

If you don’t want to, perhaps you don’t feel like what you have to say is important enough to share. Or maybe you just don’t feel like sharing!

What form of inspiration motivates you?

Ever since I was little, I competed for attention in my family of 7 children. I gave up many times when my brothers would either get in trouble or get hurt. I on the other hand became quiet. I didn’t want to get hurt or get in trouble in order to get attention. I wanted the attention I got because of me being me! It was rare that I got noticed.

It was when I did well in Art and got an award that I’d get attention. It was when my parents got me involved in horseback riding that I got attention. I would have loved to continue in that but it ended way to early to suit me.

Unfortunately, I longed for inspiration and attention for the right reasons but I didn’t feel I got it the way I wanted it. When my parents had a party and they were all living it up, my parents would pressure me to play piano. I was so not proficient at playing and felt like that was NOT the way I wanted to get attention.

If I was asked to come over and share what I liked to do for fun, I may have been able to express that with proficiency but playing an instrument that I only learned a  short time before  was asking me to share my imperfections and I just couldn’t bear that! You see, I knew when I was good at something! Pressuring a child to do something is not inspirational but causes children to mistrust their parents with their value. As a parent, inspire your children by sharing with them personally the potential you see in them, in their smile, in the way they write or draw. Truth sets children free! Feeling free is very inspirational.

When I was a bit older and could really throw a baseball, if my mom or dad would have asked me to show them how well I could throw it, I totally would have felt the inspiration to become even better.

You see, the attention I wanted was validation of who I was, not what I did. In all of us, we long for validation. However, something grand occurred in me as an adult with many years of living. I realized that I didn’t want anyone who didn’t truly value me to share life with me.

The natural course of things went as follows.

  • I talk to you.
  • You get to know me.
  • I see if I can trust you.
  • You show me either yes or no.
  • I talk to you further if I feel good about you.
  • You then can share with me the things you see in me that are valuable.
  • I then decide whether I will receive your comments.

This is where I am in life.

  • I am inspired by those I can trust.
  • Those who have written books that tell me more about my value.
  • I like when I can decide for myself whether I will receive their inspiration.
  • If you want to motivate me, you better know me well.

Of course, when we’re at a party and we’re all hanging out, if you ask me to take a “shot” of something, most likely I won’t! I dislike being pushed.

The natural course of things goes as follows:

If there is alcohol at a party and I feel like having some, I will.

If not, I won’t!

Period!

End of story!

Who's Genetically Engineering YOU?

Who’s Genetically Engineering YOU?

You won’t inspire me! Why?

I have given license to people in the past who hurry me to make a decision or I will miss out on an opportunity. I no longer do that! They use “scarcity” as a mental tactic. The root of this technique leans on those who have a poverty mentality and is absolute deceit. I absolutely have experienced this and have learned something wonderful that has helped me eliminate the need to “rush” into absolutely anything unless I am truly and honestly inspired to do it. It came from the book “The Science of Getting Rich” by Wallace Waddles.

The universe doesn’t respond to your reality. It responds to your perception of reality. When you deliberately take an emotional journey, you offer a vibration that causes law of attraction to respond to you differently. Abraham Hicks

I cannot be motivated by pressure any longer.

I became free of this with knowledge I learned over time through books and resources I read.

I now record my inspirational moments and share the resources they come from. Many come from posters on Facebook. Some come from Mindset Daily calls. Others come when I’m on my Think and Grow Rich calls.

Gone are the days of ignorance and excuses. I will not allow anyone to genetically modify my authentic journey. While trusting only sources of true inspiration, nor should you! 

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Mar 13

Life After Retirement And Internet Marketing Freedom For Life

Geri Walker Life After Retirement

Geri Walker Is Living The Good Life After Retirement

Have You  Written Your “Life After Retirement” Plan?

With the economy in such a shambles, life after retirement may have been forced on us. Sure, we plan to “stay” working but not to be “forced” to leave and perhaps take a reduction in pay if we stay. Perhaps a dream you had early on was to own your own business? Bills piling up you just got  a job and  stuck with it for 30 years like it or not! Geri Walker, Internet Marketing consultant with WalkerMarketingGroup.com shares Her strategies with us in this 24 minute interview.

We make the best of a bad situation most time believing that one day we can retire and do what we want!  With our gold watch and plaque in hand, our dreams are looking as dim as the menu or book we’re trying to read without glasses!

Retiring has it’s pluses and minus’s. Having a plan for life after retiring may prepare us to move forward with a sense of happiness rather than worry over the latter years.

 

life after retirement exercise

Our Plan For Life After Retirement Includes Freedom To Exercise

Some people retire without a plan and within a few years die. Sitting in front of the tv all day, looking for something to do, puttsing around without a plan,  having nothing to inspire us may contribute to that mental and physical death.  My mom has always been “with it”. She loves numbers and reads alot. She finds joy in sending cards to everybody and the responses she receives sustains her in her latter years. On the other hand, my dad got to the point where he could no longer do wood working and found only pleasure in watching tv. His mind began failing and weakness took him, body and soul.

It’s been said, “Ignore your health and it will go away.”

Life After Retirement And The Possibilities

There are some who can’t wait to retire so they can begin to enjoy their latter years and their pensions. One such woman I interviewed, Geri Walker, planned for retirement. She also began learning a new skill of internet marketing, knowing that it would fit well with the future travel plans she desired for herself and her husband.

Having a retirement plan is just as important as having a health plan or a business plan. Realizing that we may be looking forward to a less active life down the road, the internet is a place to use  our skills effortlessly. No more having to get up early to make  our coffee, lunch, fight traffic, and listen to  our young boss tell us what to do.

Life after retirement  and woodworking

Does Life After Retirement Include Mentoring Others?

Internet Marketing And Your Life After Retirement

Planning for retirement could mean an opportunity to create an income we can access throughout our later years. Network marketing is an industry that suits those retiring. Retiring salesmen, realtors, insurance agents, IT techs, and many others skilled socially and  on the computer, transition beautifully.

One tip I suggest. As we get close to retirement, begin doing the following”

1. Set up some goals for the next 10 yrs.
2. Write a retirement plan
3. Begin today learning a new skill using the internet
4. Grab your children or grandchildren to help you navigate the basics online
5. Set up accounts with facebook, linkedin, twitter, and create a gmail account.
6. Begin adding friends, pictures, and write interesting content on your wall of  facebook that will attract others to who you are and what interests you have.

Starting these things before we retire, we will be taking action on our plan with the spare moments.

Does My Life After Retirement Include Having Freedom

Does My Life After Retirement Include Having Freedom

Practical Tips For Life After Retirement.

1. Start or  revisit our health and exercise plan
2. Read books on personal development and biographies of successful men and women
3. Listen to beautiful and inspiring music
4. Call only the friends and family who make us feel good about yourself
5. Write in our journal or write stories or poems that  may inspire others
6. Sing around our house..
7. Think more about living a long and healthy life.

Retiring may be supplemented by working online or joining an MLM, Direct Sales or Nework Marketing company. Using the leadership skills and experiences we’ve gained over the years  is our most valuable asset. The world needs our mentorships, our story and our expertise. With the laws of attraction, if we are worrying about our future, worrisome experiences will find us. Being positive and living as a “possibility thinker” will make our retirement years  satisfying and financially profitable.

Life After Retirement Mom Working With Daughter

Life After Retirement Mom Working With Daughter

Begin Today For Our Life After Retirement

In the following interview with internet marketing entrepreneur Geri Walker,  find some tips and strategies to make life after retirement more fulfilling. Geri Walker works with me in several programs.

Click Here For Interview With Geri Walker as she discusses with me  how she planned for life after retirement and how she is creating an income with internet marketing, while maintaining the freedom that the retirement years can bring.

 

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There is really a life after retirement.

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