Tag Archive: self development

Jul 08

How to love yourself so you can be happy

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Do you love yourself?

Do you love yourself?

Do you love yourself?

Do others feel your love when you speak to them?

To love others we must have a reserve of understanding in ourselves. This comes when we build ourselves up in love.. We need to also practice loving ourselves. I recommend a couple books by John Eldredge. Captivating, and Wild at Heart. Each book is addressed to female and male. Captivating was the first book I read where I was prepared to receive the message I needed to begin loving myself.

How do I love myself first?

How do I love myself first?

How can we learn to love others when we don’t know how to love ourselves?

As a child, we may learn from our parents how to love ourselves. Which of you didn’t have this support? I understand and that’s why I’m sharing this podcast. Whether we imagined we weren’t loved or we truly didn’t get what we needed, matters not. What matters is that today, we begin to build our love life on a firm foundation. Taking small steps, reading supportive books, and finding loving people who stand by us through the process, we can change our lives for the better.

The journey to love yourself begins today!

The journey to love yourself begins today!

For more podcasts about love and other subjects like this go here

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/carynelizabeth.com/id826069648?mt=2

To love others we must know how to treat ourselves.

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May 29

How To Take Charge Of Your Negative Reactions

How To Take Charge Of Your Negative Reactions by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

Being Positive In A  Negative Environment

Are you aware of how you react to negative comments from others? The world is filled with negativity. It seems like we can’t help but lash out when others come at us with their attitudes. Have you gotten to the point where you just want to leave your family, friends and environment and make a dramatic change in your life? If so, then you are at a great place. You are self aware! You see that your life can be better and you want that!

Shrinking Back From Negative People

Shrinking Back From Negative People

 

Your Negative Neighbors

Do you become angry when you get negative criticism? Criticism is a low form of assistance others feel needs to be said.  Realizing that negative people are all around us, we want to stop them from questioning our decisions. We become angry to protect ourselves from further attack. We have been given this protective mechanism from birth. Early on in life, we use this continually. By the time we are adults, a fully evolved personality we have mastered “anger” and found other forms of response that cause less anxiety to everyone concerned. But have you?

Shrinking Back From Negative Criticism

Shrinking Back From Negative Criticism

Your Own Negative Mindset

Do you shrink back when someone is negative towards you? Some of us decide to ignore others and this works for a while. But then an eruption occurs and often divorce is in the picture. Or possibly harm is done to another because ignoring a person’s criticism is not a long term solution.

Self Awareness In A Negative Environment

Self Awareness In A Negative Environment

Self Awareness And The Negative Life

We can become aware that a long term solution is needed. When we do, doors of possibility seem to open up. We find a book that explains things. We hear a speaker that seems to talk directly to us. Being aware that we deserve a happy life, we seek for solutions. Self awareness is a gift we’re given and we ought to respect that gift!

 Freedom From Negative Mindset

Freedom From Negative Mindset

The Gift To Overcome Negative Criticism

Living as a self aware person, we begin to grow in a way that trees do: big, strong,powerful, giving shade to others, and fruit to many. This is the value we are all born with. Until we become self aware, we will use anger and shrinking back as mechanisms of protection. But our true nature is to grow prosperous and live productive lives.

Find more help for negative thinking.

 

 

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