Author of "Branding You The Brand New You", Caryn home-schooled her 3 children before creating her blog in 2010. Teaching since 1986, Caryn authored, edited and self published several books including Brincely The Brave, The Mastermind eBook, My Grandma's Birthday, Top Tips For Spiritual Living and More. Featured by eZine as an article writing expert, Caryn specializes in Network marketing using the internet. Contact Caryn to create budget friendly websites starting at $100. Teaching online skill basics available. Call for quote 570-460-6961
Do we look to others for acceptance? Or are we accepted by someone higher than those we find ourselves with regularly? Do you ‘depend’ on others for acceptance? That can be tough if they feel the need to remind you of your mistakes and hold things against you. I’m here to tell you that we were born and accepted long before others decided to point out your faults. So this podcast will point to a book with some thoughts on how to view ourselves and who to listen to. Below it is a special letter for you from God.
Hope you like it!
Here is today’s love letter:
ACCEPTED
My Beloved Daughter,
I know you want to be accepted by others, but I did not create you to fit in; I have given you the power to stand out by the way you live and love. You don’t have to bow down to peer pressure to become popular. You are set apart, and I have given you all you need to feel loved and accepted. I don’t want My daughter to waste another day being desperate for the approval of others; if you give in to that, you will lose sight of your true identity. I want you to be the one who not only feels secure in who you are, but who helps others find their acceptance in Me.
Love,
Your Heavenly Father
Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people,
but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant.
Galatians 1:10
TODAY’S DECISION:
Starting today . . . I will live for an audience of One – Christ alone! Never again will my priority be being accepted by those around me even when it compromises who I am in God. I am set apart, and I choose today to walk in my anointing, for walking in who I am in God will help those around me to walk in who they are in Christ.
Do you feel a tinge of judgment when you even think about it? Why?
Sin is not what you may think. A feeling of judgment comes when you don’t realize what it means to be a sinner.
This video helps define sin and shares the truth that will set you free.
Your job as a sinner
What is our responsibility as a sinner? We have choice to see things a certain way, to respond a certain way and to have peace a certain way. The way is made plain when you address the core issue! Your connection or lack of connection with your spirit and God’s spirit.
Let me explain in the video.
Blessings always!
Caryn
Sin is not what you think. Video explains the truth about the sinner to set you free forever.
Give yourself some love. No of us is perfect! No one! Gratefulness is a spiritual exercise. Ego wants to take you out of the game for fear of whatever ego sees as a threat! You are 3 parts. Physical, Mental, and Spiritual.
Learn to see the 3 parts of you. If you’re careful, you can observe when ego wants it’s way! But gratefulness always, and I mean always, gives no power to ego.
Be grateful and you’ll remain happy and screwing up will just be a passing thought that literally only passes through!
Thank you for learning to be grateful for everything!
Caryn
Here is where the master key experience begins a focused success experience for you
Be grateful when you were feeling good and graceful when you are feeling bad.
The Happiest person on Earth isn’t always happy. In fact, the happiest people all have their fair share of low moods, problems, disappointments and heartache. Often, the difference between a person who is happy and someone who is unhappy isn’t how often they get low or even how low they drop, but instead. It’s what they do with their low moods. How do they relate to their changing feelings? Most people have it backward. When they are feeling down, they roll up their sleeves and get to work.
They take their low moods very seriously and try to figure out and analyze what’s wrong. They try to force themselves out of their low state which tends to compound the problem rather than solve it. When you observe peaceful, relaxed people, you find that when they are feeling good they are very grateful. They understand that both positive and negative feelings come and go and that there will come a time when they won’t be feeling so good. To happy people, this is okay, it’s the way of things.
They accept the inevitability of passing feelings, So when they’re feeling depressed, angry, or stressed out, they relate to these feelings with the same openness and wisdom. Rather than fight their feelings and panic simply because they are feeling bad, they accept their feelings, knowing that this too shall pass. Rather than stumbling and fighting against their negative feelings, they are graceful in their acceptance of them. This allows them to come gently and gracefully out of the negative feeling states into more positive states of mind. One of the happiest people I know is someone who also gets quite low from time to time.
The difference, It seems, is that he has become comfortable with his low moods. It’s almost as though he doesn’t really care because he knows that in due time, he will be happy again. To him, it’s no big deal. The next time you’re feeling bad, rather than fight it, try to relax. See if, instead of panicking, you can be graceful and calm. Know that if you don’t fight your negative feelings, if you are graceful, they will pass away just as surely as the sun sets in the evening.
Excerpt from book “Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff'” by Richard Carlson. PH.D.
What is your emotional level? Low? We want to move from low to high to help us get through our day to feel great! But perhaps you question your happiness as I did! Worried? There is an instinct in nature! GOD! nature is a proponent of positive thought!
Everything in nature is moving towards creating something greater!
Love, joy, happiness are places we can dwell.
Feeling Happiness
Learning to observe thoughts and feelings are some of the special trainings I received in The Master Key Experience. I’m learning how to think better! We learn to become open to the better and better life! “Joy comes in the morning” Holy Bible
#1 Secret To Happiness
From Og Mandino, The Greatest Salesman in the World
“I was not delivered unto this world in defeat, nor does failure course in my veins. I am not a sheep waiting to be prodded by my shepherd. I am a lion and I refuse to talk, to walk, to sleep with the sheep. I hear not those who weep and complain, for their disease is contagious. Let them join the sheep. The slaughterhouse of failure is not my destiny!
Happiness is your Destiny
I found so many things we did in The Master Key Experience a great help for me. My favorite was connection with others like myself – likeminded individuals. I loved having a guide to direct me toward the next steps without spoiling the surprise that each weeks webinar gave me. I loved the childlike practices, so simple yet powerful. I loved practicing being honest with myself. I loved all the prepared statements that guided me to my greatest interests.
Happiness in The Master Key Experience
Without The Master Key Experience, my life would be on the same ole’ same ole’ track it had been for several years. I found out about the class from an email I was sent. Perhaps you will find a similar email. If it’s your time, you will notice it. I sure did and I’m so glad I discovered the next step to manifesting the better and better life; one where happiness reigns supreme, where steadiness of faith and depth of gratitude become effortless practices.
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The Master Key Experience gave happiness a permanent place in my life.
A Business coach is a master key guide to success.
Business Coach
We have all been there. Every day we are ultra busy, there are simply not enough hours in the day, and we are working hard, but despite our best efforts are basically standing still. Our business is not growing or we are stagnating in our career.
Sometimes we are too busy to realize that is happening. Even when we do realize what is happening it is not always clear what can be done to change the situation.
Fortunately, the solution is relatively simple. If you find yourself in this situation, it is time to hire a business coach. They will help you to assess where you are now and how to progress in the future.
With the support of the right coach, you will be able to identify the areas and skills that you need to work on and find ways to learn the new skills you need, and do so quickly. Often your coach will be able to provide the training you need themselves, but if they do not have the necessary skills or experience, they will identify high quality and targeted training courses for you to attend.
Finding the right coach
Whether you are looking for business coaching in New York, London or Brisbane it is important to take your time and find the right coach for you. Here are a few things you need to consider when looking for a coach.
Can I connect with this coach?
In all likelihood, the relationship you are going to have with your business coach is going to be a long-term one. If you find the right coach, you will want to go back to him or her periodically for further advice.
It makes sense to find a coach that you can connect with. You need someone that you can talk to and understand. If you do not believe in your coach and their skills you are not going to listen to them, so will not be able to benefit fully from their advice. You need a mentor, someone you trust and can communicate with effectively.
Does this coach have the knowledge I need?
It is not essential to find a coach that has experience of your industry, but you do want a coach that is successful. You need to check out their credentials and find out who they have worked with in the past. Asking colleagues for recommendations can be a good starting point when looking for an executive coach, but it is important to do your own research and find out more rather than just go with someone else’s recommendation.
Exactly what type of support are they offering?
Before signing up with a private coach or a coaching firm, you need to understand exactly what you are getting for your money. If a firm cannot be clear about what they have to offer and sell themselves to you, they are definitely not going to be able to help you to sell yourself and your company’s services to others.
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The following list gives us the keys to a positive mental attitude as Napoleon Hill so wisely shares in the above video.
Well this brings us to the seventh visit, and I hope to hand you the master key to success before I finish, because my subject will lead you so near to the majesty key that you will be apt to recognize. As I have suggested in previous visits, a positive mental attitude can clear away all obstacles which stand between you and your major purpose in life. Because of the importance of the subject of our visit, I shall not only tell you that a positive mental attitude heads the entire list of the twelve great riches in life but I am going to give you explicit instructions as to what you must do to keep your mind positive. In all the success books I have written, I have never suggested to my readers what they should do without clearly telling them how to do it.
Are you ready?
If you are ready, this visit may bring the most important change in your life you have ever experienced.
1. Learn to adjust yourself to other people’s state of mind and difficulties so as to get along peacefully with them and to refrain from taking notice of trivial circumstances in your relations with other people by refusing to allow them to become controversial incidents. Great people always avoid small incidences of controversy when possible.
2. Establish for yourself a definite fixed system of conditioning your mind at the beginning of each day so you will keep it positive under all circumstances.
Freedom is positive mental attitude
3. Learn the art of selling yourself to other people by indirection such as asking leading questions which will bring out the short reactions from others which you desire and do not permit yourself to be drawn into argument over unimportant subjects.
4. Adopt the habit of having a good hardy laugh every time you become irritated or angry and it will help you if you begin each day with one minute of hardy laughing. This will change the chemistry in your brain and start you out with a positive mental attitude. However, you had better get out of sight when you take your laughing exercise.
Start your day with a positive mental attitude
5. Start each day with an expression of gratitude for all the adversities, defeats, failures you have experienced in the past and search for the seed of an equivalent benefit these have yielded you through the passing of time. Then give thanks for the blessings you expect to receive during the day.
6. Learn to concentrate your attention on the ‘can do’ portion of all your problems and desires and start action where you stand in carrying out this portion. No matter what may be your problem or your desire there is always something you can do right now that can help you. Find out about what this something is and do it.
7. Learn to transmute all unpleasant circumstances into immediate action which calls for a positive mental attitude and make this a fixed habit. For example when you are angry, switch your mind to some sort of action in connection with your hobby or your major purpose in life and keep it busy with that subject for five minutes.
8. Recognize that every circumstance which influences your life, whether it is a pleasant or unpleasant circumstance is grist for your mill of life and if so, use it to make it pay you dividends in one form or another, remembering meanwhile that your strength grows out and your struggles. Follow this instruction and you will soon learn that there is no such thing as an unprofitable experience.
9. Look upon your life as a continuous process of education of learning from all your experiences good and bad and be always on the alert for gains of wisdom which come to you a little at a time in both your pleasant and unpleasant experiences.
10. Make the world over to fit your own pattern, if you choose, but begin with yourself in some sort of self-improvement which will make you more open-minded, patient and generous in your relations with others.
Expressing gratitude is part of a positive mental attitude
11. Express gratitude twice daily for your recognition of the fact that you have been given complete control over your own mind and ask for guidance in order that you may use this profound gift wisely in all your thoughts and acts.
12. Go out of your way daily to comment enthusiastically on the good qualities in those with whom you live and work but do not mention their negative qualities. Then observe this benefit to yourself how quickly others will begin to concentrate on your good qualities. Remember, I’m still talking about how to keep your mind positive.
13. Accept all criticism of yourself as an occasion for self-examination to determine how much of it is justified and you will be sure to make startling discoveries about yourself which will help you the remainder of your life.
14. Do not accept from life or anyone else anything you do not desire and remember that Mahatma Gandhi proved himself to be more powerful than the great British military forces
by this simple method of passive resistance.
15. Remember always that there are two kinds of circumstances which cause you to worry; those you can do something about and those you can do nothing about, nothing, that is, except to use passive resistance and refuse to permit them to worry you.
Managing worry and a positive mental attitude
16. Keep your mind eternally engaged in thinking of that which you desirable most, your major purpose in life, so no time will be left for you to waste on thinking of that which you do not want, and let me digress here while I tell you we are now rubbing elbows with the great master key of success this very moment.
17. If you should ever be so unfortunate as to feel sorry for yourself look around until you find someone who is worse off than yourself and start where you stand to give him help. Make this procedure a habit and you will witness one of the great miracles of life because that which you do to or for another you do to or for yourself.
18. Choose some person whom you consider to be the sort of person you would like to be, then go to work and emulate that person in every way possible. Great people have always been hero worshipers but they picked the right sort of people to emulate.
19. Cultivate your tone of voice so that your words have a pleasing musical sound and remember that the sound of your voice is an open window through which other people look into your very soul. It will be a profitable investment if you will get a tape recording machine and record samples of your voice daily while you practice the art and expressing yourself through a friendly sounding voice. If you’re engaged in selling, this practice will quickly pay off in monetary dividends.
20. Last, but by no means the least, write out this sentence and paste it in a prominent place where you work and on a mirror where you see yourself in your home. ‘Whatever the mind can conceive and believe the mind can achieve.’ Remember also that you are the only person who can provide you with a positive mental attitude. What are you going to do about it? On your answer to this question rests your entire future.
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Having a positive mental attitude is an ongoing practice for an abundant satisfying lifestyle.
Here is a short introduction on how to save time, money and stress
when filing mail and other paperwork.
If you like this, comment below and I’ll share another.
I hope to keep them short and address one
concept at a time. Then give you time to adapt to it.
I understand overwhelm with filing mail. Perhaps this will help avoid that!
I’vebeen talking about MLM, Network Marketing and Direct Sales businesses on this blog for a long time. I have been in many companies before. The shiny object syndrome took over when I became bored with what I was doing. Sometimes it just didn’t resonate. Other times the cost became prohibitive. Can you relate?
Finding A Better Business
I’m not the better business bureau but when my boyfriend decided to join a direct sales company, after I told him I was through with them, I decided I’d better go check out what he’d gotten himself into. When I arrived at the meeting, I realized that these people were really nice. There demeanor was very low key. Cool! I thought! No hype! NICE!
The Best Business
So do I join because he was in? It became apparent that since he’d never been in network marketing before, I’d better show him the ropes! haha Granted he’s been in sales for 10 years but many have found out that sometimes we must unlearn that sales training. I decided to join and found 11 customers rather quickly. The system is set up to be very simple. “Ask for a favor!” What could be difficult about that? Well, are you surprised that some people don’t have such rapport with others? So I had to find some advanced training so that I could happily teach the leadership principles a new team with little network marketing experience would need. What’s my boyfriend doing now? I’ll leave that up to him to tell you! I am building a team. I’m going slow because I’m retraining brains and that takes time. With videos and audios that correct bad habits, I’m setting up my team for success.
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Staying in Business
I’m going to be completely honest with you. MLM, Direct Sales, Network Marketing is really a personal development study with a compensation plan attached. Is the residual income worth the study? I think so. Don’t leave your job to pursue it, I’ll say that! Learn authentic inviting first! It’s a skill based business and my mentor Mark Januszewski gives away free skills he got from him mentor Tom “Big Al” Schreiter.
Spending Your Way Out Of Business
Are you in a company where your auto-ships are piling up in your garage? Been there, done that! I love the company I’m in now because it’s service based. I’m a consultant. You know there are basically 2 types of people. Most people when they hear about a way to save money get excited and curious and seek out more information to see if it’s a fit for them…. But… some of them don’t! You know the type! (hahah) They’d rather sit around watching TV, surf the internet, drink beer and smoke pot… rather than help themselves and their family.
