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How Scammers Gamble With Your Facebook Profile – 7 Ways To Protect Yourself

How Scammers Gamble With Your Facebook Profile – 7 Ways To Protect Yourself by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

How Safe Is Your Facebook Profile From Scammers?

There are people who do not have your best interests at heart! Do not be a sitting duck! I’ve experienced scamming and will share from experience the warning signs of scamming.

Action steps you can take today to keep from getting scammed.

Listen to the audio to find out and discover why it happened!

scammers prey on weak

Scammers prey on the Weak

How To Avoid The Scammers

Further steps to take to claim your identity as a confident person

1. Decide that you want to change your life
2. Write down what you want
3. Ask for what you want
4. Keep the vision of this desire as being fulfilled
5. Believe that you are receiving it
6. Read books and attend motivational calls that assist you
7. Share what you learn with others by blogging online, taking action to create the change in your relationships offline, and telling others where they can get the same help to got when they see how much more confident you are now!

Further action steps to avoid Scammers

 

Some resources you may find helpful:
The Bride by Rhonda Calhoun
Wild At Heart (for men) by Eldridge
Captivating (for women) by Eldridge

If you liked this audio and resources, perhaps you would like these others

The Following audios are available to further develop a “self confident” mindset so you will have control over scammers or other people who would do you harm if you don’t have the power to stop them.

1.Thinking For Right Relationships With commentaries
2.The Science Of Getting Rich Audios and commentaries

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10 Top Tips For Buying A House In Milford PA – Pocono Living


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Your New House In Milford PA – For Sale By Owner

 

Finding a House In Milford PA Or The Poconos

Finding a country home in the Poconos or anywhere else can be difficult when you don’t know the area. Looking for the right school district, the close highways, the right church, the neighborhoods that are kid friendly, and most of all, the availability to nearby shopping may not be as easy as you hope.

However, the following list can help you find that Milford home, or the home in the Poconos of Pennsylvania, or Tri state area you might be looking for.

Follow these tips to find a house in Milford PA that’s a perfect fit for you:

1. Go for the long haul

When looking for a house for sale in Milford PA, search for one that you could see yourself living in for several years — at least five to seven years is ideal. Buying — and moving — to a new home takes a lot of time and effort, and can add up significantly in closing and moving costs, etc. Staying in place longer will help you avoid those added expenses. Plus, the extra time spent in your home could be just enough to help you ride out a downturn in the real estate market.

2. Leave room to grow

Aim for more space and look for a house in Milford PA or where ever you wish, that can adapt to your needs as your life changes, say, if you have a new baby, or Junior moves back in after college. If you can’t afford a place that’s large enough to meet your anticipated future needs now, look for one that will allow you to build on later on.

Your Best Options For A House In Milford PA Or The Poconos

3. Be flexible

Consider a place with rooms that can serve multiple functions, so the home remains highly functional for you through the years. For example, an open-floor-plan-style home is very adaptable. A kitchen that overlooks a family room is helpful when one’s children are young (you can cook while watching the kids), while such a kitchen is also great for entertaining your friends once the kids leave the roost.

4. Go for your type

Think about what style of home fits you best — house, condo, town home, etc. — they’re not one size fits all. For example, a single-family house in Milford PA — which sits on its own lot and must be maintained by the homeowner — may be great for a person seeking privacy, but not so wonderful for somebody who doesn’t want to worry about mowing the lawn, fixing the plumbing, etc. Meanwhile, a condo might be perfect for somebody who wants a “lock ‘n’ leave” lifestyle, but not for somebody who doesn’t like sharing a wall with his neighbors.

5. Check the surroundings

When you purchase a house for sale in Milford PA, you not only get a house, you also buy into a neighborhood. Think about whether that neighborhood will suit you. Sure, you might love the house itself, but will the loud neighbors next door or the school across the street become too bothersome for you? Also, do you like the feel of the neighborhood and does it offer everything you need? It’s best to find a place in a community that you’ll enjoy.

6. Buy what you can afford

It’s easy to shoot for the sky and overspend when buying a home — you understandably want the best your money can buy. Examine your finances, keeping in mind current and future expenses, and don’t exceed your means. It’s smarter to buy a home you can easily afford than one you have to stretch to get into. Stay down to earth, and you’ll be better prepared should unexpected financial commitments and problems arise later down the road.

Your Best Features For A House In Milford PA Of The Poconos

7. Think “home” first

When purchasing a home, don’t imagine the dollar signs you’ll see the day you sell it. A home is just that — primarily a “home,” and not an investment. So, buy a place that would be great to live in first and think about its resale value second. Predicting real estate cycles and home appreciation is tough enough for the experts — and much more for the average home buyer. Plus, while home renovations tend to add value to a residence, they rarely recoup more than what was spent on them.

8. Look at both old and new

It’s nice to move into a house in Milford PA that’s brand-new. But, new isn’t always better. Consider both old and new. While you might not like a previous homeowner’s decorating decisions, you might like the owner-installed upgrades — like a finished basement and a backyard deck — that a new house for sale in Milford, PA might not have.

9. Location, location

You’ve heard this tip before, but a home’s location does matter. A house that’s located on a busy, noisy street may be less enjoyable to you as a homeowner than one situated on a quiet, secluded cul-de-sac. Plus, a home on a cul-de-sac is likely to be worth more than a poorly located one when it comes time to resell. So consider a home’s location, such as a house in Milford PA,  before you’re smitten by a spectacular interior.

10. When it comes time to sell

While you want to think of your place as a home first and not an investment, it doesn’t make sense to purchase a white elephant, either. You should put at least some thought into how easy — or difficult — it’ll be to resell the home one day. If a home is so unlike other nearby homes in terms of size, style, price, etc., you might want to skip it and look elsewhere — it could become a burden should you want to someday move on.

To Your Future Home Purchase,

Caryn Elizabeth
PS Perhaps this for sale by owner house in Milford PA  at  121 Stonefield Rd  (570-460-6961) is one you would consider!

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What Are Your Emotions Telling You About Your Future? (Podcast)

Emotional Triggers That Help Your Succeed! by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

Emotions are a great help if you know how to use them.

The day I listened to a teaching that brought up a question for me to consider, I became uncomfortable but didn’t know exactly why. I just knew I had to use what I had learned from previous self development studies to get to the root of the matter. So I used the pendulum technique to help me. If you have gone through trauma in your early life, you may have conflicts which your emotions will later express to you.

What emotions trigger failure and success in you?

What emotions trigger failure and success in you?

Emotions And Conflicts

Listen as I share what techniques to use to help you eliminate the conflicts between your conscious mind that strives for success and your subconscious mind that you have conditioned to believe differently. The truth is that conflicts keep us from fulfilling our potential success and a life without satisfaction is like the black hole of death. Salvation means nothing missing, nothing broken.

Examples of Emotions

Let this podcast assist you in eliminating any conflicts your emotions trigger. Some examples of emotional trigger are crying, anxiety, anger, fear, frustration, jealousy, cynicism. Let’s root out these bitterness’s in you so you can live the life of freedom and power you were given breath to do all the days of your life!

Honor Your Emotions

Honor the creator and yourself today! Listen carefully and take notes! You won’t want to miss this one time podcast that could change your life forever! Your emotions are given to you by the creator to help you manage your success in life.

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Branding You The Brand New You Book Review – The Fears Of Branding Yourself

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What does branding you as a trusted authority mean?

Branding yourself in order to market your goods and services online can be quite a challenging endeavor. Before I wrote my first book about it, I experienced 2 years of hit and miss strategies, here now gone tomorrow online mentors, skill-set trainings, scam programs, manipulative messages, as well as some great skill and mindset development before I felt like I knew enough to enlighten and teach others. The test of skill is your ability to teach others with proficiency. In “Branding You The Brand New You, I share my experience and secrets as your trusted authority!

Offline Businesses And Branding You

Branding yourself online draws your followers to a specific niche you market to. It is something offline businesses need. It is also what network marketers who are part of Multilevel or Direct sales companies are doing to build huge businesses using the internet. I have been in several companies and have experience with good teams and bad teams, with good leadership and poor leadership.

Leadership and Branding You

Leadership has become one of my passions and it’s due to the poor quality of leadership demonstrated in all these platforms using online marketing. This type of team building draws charismatic leaders but needs much more to keep a loyal following. One must learn how to build “know, like and trust” in order to keep that following. While large businesses like Pepsi, Apple, and Nascar have tremendous skill at this, new wanna be leaders to online marketing training and team building are manipulative and greedy and the followers lose heart over time and jump from company to company looking for someone who has both skill and moral values in leadership.

Mindset + Skill-set X Performance = Branding You Results

Thousands of businesses are busy marketing their goods and services and customers only see the results of their efforts. Training systems are springing up all over the internet. I’ve been part of a few of them and learned alot using them.

Branding oneself requires the 4 P’s of high performance.

  1. Psychology
  2. Physiology
  3. Productivity
  4. Persuasion.

Experienced marketers are busy keeping up with the changing market for making money and have no desire to teach strategies for future competitors.

Some teachers and trainers are excellent at sharing this information for monthly fees to be part of a training and support community. However, Branding You The Brand New You is a book resource to equip you with coaching to prepare you with a firm foundation for marketing anything online. share my personal journey for the past 2 years. I tell you the people I met, the businesses I was in, the times I was scammed, robbed, and beaten up! Not literally, of course. I was online, behind my desk, so to speak!

Social Media and Branding You

Social media managers are the new trend. Marketers are creating trainings for business owners and affiliate marketers are getting commissions for sharing these training companies. In “Branding You The Brand New You”, I share my social media tips using Facebook, Skype, Linkedin, Twitter, You Tube and other communities and ways to brand yourself as a trusted authority.

 

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Newbie Marketers and Branding You

I experienced what happens when you are not focused with the correct mindset for building a business, generating leads and building a list online.Branding gets you off to the right start!

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Life Insurance as Retirement Savings Option – Things to Consider

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Our Plan For Life Insurance  After Retirement Includes Brings  Freedom

Thinking about Life Insurance?

If you are someone who is thinking of investing in a Life Insurance Policy to add on to your retirement savings then you must consider a few things before that. It is important to understand whether such a cover will at all be of any substantial value addition to your post retirement savings or not.

Firstly as soon as you seek expert advice, there might be chances that you will be flooded with mixed advice. Most of them will ask you to refrain from investing in a policy cover. According to them, it is mainly provided by people who are at the peak of their earnings willing to ensure that their families do not have to face financial hardships in case they die. So according to them it would be useless to invest in something like this when you already have reached your stage of retirement and do not have a large family to take care of apart from your spouse.

Life Insurance Cover

On the other hand, there will be others who will opine that it would be better if you invest in a Life Insurance Cover in case you have an estate that is subject to estate tax.

Whatever the expert opinions are, the decision to invest in such a scheme, lies with you. Here are certain questions that you must ask yourself before availing the benefits of the Life Cover:

Are you someone who has received substantial death in service benefits of your spouse?

If you are someone who has had the misfortune of loosing your spouse while he or she was still in service, and are entitled to considerable death in service benefits from the company you need not invest further in a Life Insurance in your retirement— these benefits are high enough to see you through your troubled days in case your children are grown up and you have nobody to look after

Are your premiums going to be costlier than usual just as you are older?

Life Insurance Premiums

Yes as you age, the premiums of the Life Policy will increase. For instance if you are 70 years old and are thinking of buying a level term insurance you will be charged double of what you would have paid in the age of 40.

Do you have anyone to look after even after your retirement?

If yes, then you can think of taking a Life Insurance Policy

Are you thinking of buying an insurance with the pension funds you have received, keeping your spouse as a nominee?

If yes then please remember that the road ahead is going to be very complicated. You have to calculate the total amount of pension that you are supposed to receive and substitute it accordingly with your life insurance policy— yes it is going to be that costly. In case you fail to pay the premiums regularly then both your Life Insurance and Premiums are gone.

Author Bio: Alan Starc has been passionately writing about informative insurance articles for quite some now. Relevant Life Policy is something about life insurance that he has been writing about in recent times.

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Why Am I Here?

 

Did we come with a “life’s manual” to answer “Why Am I Here”?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if all human beings were born with “manufacturer’s  instructions” tied to their wrists, explaining who they are and how they work? Of course, even if we did, most of us would probably skip the instructions and try to figure out life as we went along!

I believe human beings do come with the equivalent of operating instructions  that give us answers to our deepest questions about ourselves and our world like “why am I here”? Some of this information has been placed within us; the rest has been given to us by our Creator or “manufacturer” in written form.

Are You Confused about why am i here

There must be a reason why am I here!

Why Am I Here And Uncertainty

The reason we’re filled with such uncertainly and confusion about life is that we’ve lost our connection to these original instructions. We haven’t stopped to recognize our internal programming, or to read our life manual in order to understand our personal potential or how we work answering Why am I here? This is why we can’t see the purpose of the world itself and how it is supposed to function.

When we try but fail to solve what is broken in our lives and in our world, it is because our manufacturer’s labels have become faded, and we haven’t read this crucial instruction: “Do not try to repair yourself.  Return to Manufacturer.”

It is the Manufacturer who…

…has the original blueprints.

…knows how to repair what is broken inside us.

…can provide the replacement piece for what is missing in our lives.

Why Am I Here Replacement Pieces

When we discover the manufacturer’s original intent, we come to understand our purpose, our potential, to answer the question “why am I here?” and the significance of our role in this world.

Read more to answer the question “Why Am I Here?” and live with purpose and power.

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What Is Direct Sales? How Do I Lead Others When I Join A Company?

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Do You Have A Prosperity Mindset When It Comes To Direct Sales?

What is Direct Sales?

Can An Average Person Make Money In Direct Sales?

In a conversation I had recently, about direct sales with my friend and business partner Todd Gragg, we exposed some lies and shared some wisdom about direct sales.  The conclusion we came to is that we those entering into direct sales must take responsibility for the success that is at their disposal with the leadership training offered. Whether in direct sales, network marketing and MLM’s both online and off, leaders are being developed in these organizations and teams of leaders are being trained help others coming in after them to make money and achieve levels of success expected from companies of this sort.


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Poverty Mindset Of A Person Of Ignorance

Direct Sales and The Poverty Mindset

There are still some individuals who see the words MLM, Network Marketing, Direct Sales, Multilevel Marketing as  pyramid schemes.The Direct Selling industry is  a billion dollar industry.  There are nearly 5000 direct sales companies presently. All these companies are governed by the federal trade commission. If their was something illegal going on, the industry would be shut down. But it’s NOT!

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I Listen To The Wrong People About Direct Sales

All MLM’s, networking marketing, internet marketing and affiliate marketing is the same thing. Direct Sales.

Direct Sales And People Skills

So you’ve come online to generate income and you say you don’t want to deal with people? So do you know what you just said? You may as well leave the online industry because it’s all about PEOPLE! The beauty of this industry is that “the whole is greater than the sum of it’s parts“..

You can leverage people to create an income without the costs of franchising on your own. Companies have already laid out the big costs and you’re income is directly related to the work you put into any program.

You are the owner of your company or “brand”. Posture yourself as a leader. Who do you listen to? Kevin Trudeau says it best. “Listen to those who have what you want“. If you want wealth, listen to someone who is wealthy. If you want wisdom,

Drive The Winning Vehicle In Direct Sales When You Listen To Race Car Winners

Drive The Winning Vehicle In Direct Sales When You Listen To Race Winners

listen to someone who have the results a wise man has. If you want specific leaderships skills, listen to a leader who’s track record proves their leadership.

Direct Sales Business Investment

You tell me you haven’t the money to get started in a direct sales company.  There are companies which cost little to nothing to be part of. I joined them in my learning process before I found one that I felt I wanted to stick with. Don’t be afraid to experiment. The most important thing is developing your skills as a leader so that your investment is worth it. Your team will benefit from your self development.

The way to get the knowledge is to sacrifice something in order to achieve the great gains that the wisdom of a mentor and self development training will give you. In the end, you will have not only a prosperous mindset but a prosperous wallet as well.

Direct Sales is a model that works for an average people like myself, who was a stay at home mom turned online marketing entrepreneur. I came to realize that if I were to become wealthy in my purse, I had to strongly desire to develop leadership skills. Anyone who thinks like an average person will indeed prosper when they begin to trust that Direct Sales is a legitimate way to generate wealth over time and become above average.

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Secrets For Making Money Online- How To Start Making Money Now

 

Marketing Education Before Making Money Online

The need for a good marketing education with a proven system, a good mentor and coach and a community is the secret to making money online. In this article I will explain the simple strategies for getting the best marketing education before without getting scammed or spending your kids future.

 

Like all experienced marketers, I have been reading marketing materials, joined membership sites, learning about article, video, forum, classified ads marketing for over a year at the time of writing this article. I have talked to newbie, novice and guru marketers and I have observed that everyone at every level continues to educate themselves.

 

They all had the same problem.

 

They started out with little to no money and they wanted to make some quick. They had no knowledge and they scrambled to anything that promised millions. In their naivety, they lost more money and many left defeated. Some stayed and those are the ones who discovered the secret I am about to expose!

Making Money Online: Coaches and Mentors

 

Finding like-minded marketers through social media sites is the best way now to network for business success. I have been forming bonds for a long time that have influenced my marketing and helped me to exercise leadership and sometimes keep me from making mistakes if I had marketed without help.

 

Making Money Online: Training

 

Many marketing training systems are being developed by “novice” marketers and they are an attempt for these marketers to teach what they have been learning. These marketers are also building their brand and exercising the power of ‘perceived authority’ to those who know less than them.

 

Making Money : Advanced Training

The internet is evolving and it’s important to keep up with the current trends. Continual change in social media, ownership of the big sites, and shutdowns, new sites and products are continually showing the need for advanced training. Those in the know are generally those who have learned what to focus on. The novice to experienced marketers are generally up to date because of the focus on optimizing their sites, product offerings and mastermind groups they formed or been part of.

 

Making Money: Spending Your Money

 

The biggest deception is that making money online requires spending lots of it. When starting out making money online, more grunt work is done. The new marketers secret weapon is the “Novice marketer”. They will give away value in order to earn trust. After a while, may choose to spend big money on a product by the “gurus”. I will tell you though, more importantly, getting plugged in to a community will serve your interests way better. A mastermind group is a great benefit for you.

 

Making Money: Education

If you are new and want the basics for making money online, find a system that’s free to start. If you want an MLM to exercise new leaderships skills, find one that’s inexpensive to join. A good foundation is necessary before you jump into big time. If you have the money go ahead and join an expensive system. They will have optimized things for you and it may save you time.

Making Money: Spending Your Time

 

If you go the free to learn way, you will save money but spend more time. That’s the way I started. Or if you have a couple hundred dollars extra per month to spend on training, go ahead and do that. Either way the learning curve demands you give yourself some time to absorb and then take action on each step. There is so much to learn that I can’t really put it all in this article.

 

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Leadership and Teaching Self Confidence To Children

Leadership and Raising Self Confident Children by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

Self confidence is a leadership quality

Are you a leader/follower Or are you a leader/leader?

A child’s self confidence begins at home with parents as leaders. Every child will become what his parents teach him or her. If a parent is afraid of mice, it’s likely the child will be also. A confident parent will raise confident children, providing that parent is confident in honest endeavors.

Skepticism is the deadly enemy of progress and self-development. Parents who feel that the “rich” are out to take all their money, or the poor are a waste of humanity will subconsciously teach their children the same.

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Successful entrepreneurs have self confidence

What do we know about self confidence?

Truly, this is an age of illumination and unfoldment, but we have as yet barely scratched the surface of knowledge. However, when we shall have unlocked the gate that leads to the secret power which is stored up within us it will bring us knowledge that will make all past discoveries pale into oblivion by comparison.

This is the knowledge that becomes power to our successful life and to the lives of those we lead, be it our children, our teammates, our employees, our board, or whatever human being comes across our path.

Thought is the most highly organized form of energy known to man, and with the experiences of time, it is sure to bring us into greater understanding of that mysterious force called thought, which reposes within us. As parents, we have a responsibility to model a healthy thought life to our children.

The mind of a child which has not come into the age of general understanding, during an average period covering,say, the first two years of its life, is plastic, open, clean and free.

Any idea planted in such a mind by one in whom the child has confidence takes root and grows, so to speak, in such a manner that it never can be eradicated or wiped out, no matter how opposed to logic or reason that idea
may be.

Children Leaders Are Both Male and Female

Children leaders exhibit self confidence in business

Are your children learning self confidence from others?

Many religionists claim that they can so deeply implant the tenets of their religion in the mind of a
child that there never can be room in that mind for any other religion, either in whole or in part. The claims
are not greatly overdrawn. If our churches can do this, (and perhaps our schools as well), we as parents must oversee faith and scholarly teachings or suffer the consequences of another force outside of us leading our children in a way we would or would not want them to go.

Sad to say but some parents with lack of knowledge, fear things. This ignorance is passed to their children as truth even though what they fear may not be true. One example can be a fear of ill health. I have heard many lack confidence in their own health because they have heard their own parents say “because I got diabetes, you’ll get it too.”

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I lack self confidence when I listen to negative people

Does fear stop self confidence?

This fear (false evidence appearing real) is a lie but many take it as truth. Self confidence expresses truly taking responsibility for our health by researching for ourselves the best lifestyle for good health. This assertion is a great asset for both the parents health and the children’s future healthy life as well. While my children sometimes bauched at some of the healthy foods I made while they were young, are now reaching for the same healthy foods on the grocer shelf. For some ignorant parents, their now ill nourished children are reaching for Twinkies instead of fruit snacks.

Leadership over children and adults begins with taking responsibility over our own life and no longer listening to those who wish us ill, because they are ill. Thankfully, there is much help on the internet and in books like “The Science Of Getting Rich” available today to empower us toward lives of success as we strive toward our definite chief aim.

Our children are our first responsibility. Teaching them self confidence will come easier when they see us living an honorable self confident life. Why are you confident? Because you are living honestly, without fear and with knowledge of the things that make life good.

Healthy habits and self confidence

Raise your children well and you have set into place habits for also raising up loyal employees, team members, and any group you may desire to lead.

Self confidence begins with you. Its now or never. Be the leader/leader you are meant to be. And when you look back over your life, you will not see regrets too much to bare. You will see obstacles overcome, risks confidently taken, habits created by discipline, and love for yourself that made it all worth it.

If you like this post on self confidence, you may want to get the whole series.

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How To Explain “Definite Chief Aim” To Children

What is your Definite Chief Aim? by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

 

What is a Definite Chief Aim?

Definite Chief Aim is another way of saying “our purpose”. Stephen Covey said “Think with the end in mind”, when you write down your purpose for living. Teaching our children to create a purpose statement will help them to go more directly to the success that is their birthright.

We as parents can stimulate our children to organize  and direct to a definite end the forces of his or her mind  thus harnessing the stupendous power which most people waste in spasmatic purposeless thought.

Singleness of purpose is essential for success no matter what may be ones idea of the definition of success. This calls for thought on many allied subjects as a fighter must learn many types of punches and exert himself in many forms of exercise to win the match.

The punching bag for speed and eye coordination, running for leg strength, proper food, and other forms of strength building to make him well rounded and ready to win in every battle.
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The Battle For Achieving Your Definite Chief Aim

So do we need to stimulate our children regarding the training of their mind  that will give them the needed information to grant them success in the battle of life.

The mind needs to develop success steps by habit and repetition using a variety of thought inspiring stimuli. Hopefully as you read and study this series of leadership posts for the benefit of your children,  it  will stimulate ideas for your own leadership education.

To get an in depth study of these principles, you may want to get a copy of “Think And Grow Rich” by Napolean Hill.

In sharing these principles with your children, both parent and child need take the stand that no man knows enough about any worthwhile subject to entitle him to feel that he has the last word on that subject.

It is wise and honest that we wipe out ignorance and make way for some of the useful truths of life.

Being Teachable While Pursuing Your Definite Chief Aim

Humility is a for-runner of success. Until we become humble in our own heart, we are not apt to benefit from the thoughts and experiences of others.

Training ourselves and our children to be teachable will take us much further in life. As parents, forcing children to do things teaches them to compete for power. Rather, explaining to our children the benefits of listening  only to those who have what we want and are the kind of person we want to become, we are helping them tremendously.

The bottom line is that our children need to develop a mindset that includes the value of having a definite chief aim in life. Using the examples of our heroes, our children should write down the way they want to be remembered when they die.

While this may seem daunting to you, children have great imaginations and can come up with plenty of ways they want to be remembered. This forms their definite chief aim in life.

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An Exercise To Establish Your Definite Chief Aim

Perhaps the both of you can do an exercise. Take 20 minutes and on white lined paper take a blue pen and  answer this question, “Why am I here?”.

As you keep writing reasons why you are here, you will see similarities and after a while, your sentences will become more clear and simpler. When you have written for about 20 minutes, you should have a very good sentence you can post in your journal, on notes around your home, in your car, locker, notebook or inside your bike helmet or on your mirror.

This is your definite chief aim. Any child who comes up with one and aims to reach for that purpose will have an extremely high chance of achieving that purpose.

This will help your child to be a leader over his life.

  • Peers will not shake him.
  • Obstacles will be only temporary setbacks.
  • He’ll look for friends to help him get to that end.

The shortest distance between 2 points is a straight line and a chief aim helps us get to where we are headed as if it were a magnet drawing us to it.

Help your child become the leader over his own life. Help him or her write his purpose statement and share yours with him. In humility, you will both become accountable to each other through life as you reach for that definite chief aim!

 

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